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The Life Centered Funeral

Living FuneralThe philosophy of humanism focuses on ideas about human life, its nature and purpose. It emphasizes personal growth, free will and the attempt to find the meaning of one's own existence.

Humanist philosophy rejects concepts of humans being controlled by a supernatural or unconscious force. As humanist theorist, Maslow proposed, all human beings have an innate compulsion toward self-actualization (fulfillment of one's talents and potentialities).

Humanist philosophy also emphasizes the importance of personal choice, personal responsibility, the growth of personality and positive feelings of self-esteem (self-worth).

Over the past 25 years, many studies have been conducted by psychologists that look specifically at self-concept. The fact that humanism focuses on self-actualization and growth places it within the positive psychology movement. This is a movement which emphasizes the study of human strengths, as well as human fulfillment and optimal living.

Humanist Views on Life and Death

Death is the final stage of growth and humanists come to terms with the fact that life is going to end. Death is where one completes their one and only life – not prepares for another or next life. In death one remains true to oneself.

The humanist focuses on the person dying and their earthly relationships. The humanist says goodbye to loved ones and organizes their affairs so that loved ones left behind are not inconvenienced with loose ends.

Living FuneralSome say the humanization of death is a response to hospitalization, where life can be artificially extended through modern medicine and technology. We’re now able to live past our natural life spans, thanks to modern medicine. Many know of loved ones, friends or have experienced on their own, how life can continue on for many years with proper medical intervention. Heart attacks, strokes and diseases like diabetes need not be fatal. Diseases can be managed. Health emergencies can be recovered from. However, nearing death, many have trouble determining where to draw the line. Should human life be extended past the point of good quality of life when death is expected or imminent? A humanist would understand that this one life is nearing its end, and that without the mind, one cannot live a quality life, regardless of how long machines might be able to prolong living.

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